The magic of volunteering

In my job I talk a lot about the ‘magic of teams’. The unknown factors that just make things work; the glue you can’t quite describe that brings a team together – one that on paper shouldn’t work but does. The chemistry, the collaboration, the trust, the belief in each other, the relationships that are stronger than the obstacles in the way. All things that help to create winning teams and all things I’m incredibly passionate about. And now, I can say I’ve seen the same magic in volunteering.

I’d like to share just three of the magical things I’ve learnt about volunteering in the past year or so…

Say ‘yes’ to the unknown

It’s much easier to say ‘no’ when what lies in front of you is unknown. The natural reaction to fear is to walk the other way. But, when you’re brave enough to jump the first hurdle and commit, then the magic starts. You’re in, no backing out. My first experience was to create and deliver a CV writing workshop in Brixton prison. But I started questioning myself – can I do this, will they hate me, it’s supposed to be three hours, what if it collapses in 5 minutes? Do I even know what a good CV is..? All questions I could only answer by actually doing it. And of course, when the time comes the experience might not be the perfect carbon copy of your plan, but I can guarantee you it will be full of value to everyone involved. Why? Because you’re there, you’re doing something positive, your helping – maybe a little, hopefully a lot, but you’re helping – and it’s because you were brave enough to say that one magical word: ‘yes’.

All you need is you

Last week, I read an article on volunteering and in one passage, the author wrote “passion and positivity are all you need”. I couldn’t agree more. I’m a huge believer in transferrable skills, and through the passion and positivity of volunteering you will undoubtedly learn that you know more than you think you do. Even if it’s as simple as knowing how to talk to someone, no matter who they are, or connecting with someone who is as different to you as you could imagine. Or simply being able to listen. We all have something in us that can make a difference – and what you know from your everyday world can be applied to one you never imagined. It works. So don’t think you need a specific set of skills, a raft of experience, a particular personality – all you actually need is yourself. Because we all have magic in us.

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It’s much easier to say ‘no’ when what lies in front of you is unknown. The natural reaction to fear is to walk the other way. But, when you’re brave enough to jump the first hurdle and commit, then the magic starts.

Gerry Williams

Member of the Livery and Haberdashers' Monmouth School Alumnus
Feeling good not guilty There was a real conflict in the emotions I felt about volunteering. Immediately after walking out of Brixton Prison that first time, I felt a huge sense of self-fulfilment, of pride and satisfaction. But then I checked myself – this isn’t about me, that’s so self-indulgent, how arrogant to think I should be the one to feel good. But the more I thought about it, the more I believed I should. Why? Because it’s the rush that makes you want to do it again. You don’t need to crow about it or shout it from the roof tops – no one’s interested in that, but you should definitely allow yourself to feel it. The stimulation of meeting new people, the mental reward of challenging yourself and succeeding, the joy of learning that the little things matter, discovering that you can do something new, the exhilaration of seeing genuine gratitude and progress in those you’re there to help. The buzz of realising you’re breaking down your own misconceptions, or simply the excitement of getting up in the morning and doing something different. But most of all, because it’s a magical feeling you can’t quite describe, and it’s one you’ll want to have again and again. I’m thrilled to be a very small part of this wonderful organisation and thank you for allowing me to share a little bit of the magic I’ve seen and felt since I said ‘yes’.
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